Syk: He's Jealous and Will not Change---This will ONLY Get Worse

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jul 15, 2013 at 22:44

Dear Syk:

This man is accusing you of "not loving him" to get you to concede and feel sorry for him. The fact that he is wondering where you are all the time---heh, I had a woman who liked me that I met on-line some years ago act like that.

It's typically a sign of jealousy and insecurity. In his case, he expects you to behave in a certain way and I think he likes the idea of being with someone different but it has to be HIS way.

My, how that describes so many stories on here!

"He said Yes I could be busy, were you busy? I said "No, just didn't want to disturb him" He said "Ok I understand busy and I can't reply, but now I'm busy, see you" And went away."

Ha! I remember that game! Showing you're the stronger one by pretending not to care and having a life....back and forth....back and forth......

Syk, I think you can do better!

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