Egyptian men

Submitted by Candyeyes (United Kingdom), Jul 12, 2013 at 19:48

I understand what you are saying but no im not being thick headed, im trying to look at both worlds.

As much as internet dating can be wrong in many ways there is also a succession rate as its easier to go further afield, yes it has its downfalls which women tend to more than men share experiences. This Guy I met online i had no reason to doubt in the first place as the conversation was no different to had he been local, because im not for skype most men who ask me for that or msn I usually get asking for fun etc so I dont give the addy, thats not me. When he said he was on a break and home till August yes alarm bells started mainly because I had this before with a Nigerian scammer which i picked up on within a few days, in my first comment I did not say I had a relationship with this nigerian.

My doubts I had were mainly because thats me regardless to who he is, and no im not vulnerable either what happened was I knew nothing about Egypt or the people etc and while looking i was faced with horror stories, most all the same which is why i asked because not many gave specifics to look out for, if anything this Guy is complete opposite so much so that all this did my head in and had his name checked out for peace of mind. I found a site that gice yu lsits of things they might say etc. Even they clarified i may have found a genuine one.

The documents he holds are in order and yes he did find someone he liked who got him in the country , so what there are thousands who did the same. I am not saying that is good but again I know a British man who is looking for and american to marry to go there to live, In August this Egyptian is due to start his job again as they were good enough to hold his posotion open for him, and he came to UK last week to get the handover and see me which I didnt know he was doing till he called one morning telling me he was here. We had a good time and no different as if we were on skype.

At the end of the day I do not own my home, I bring in enough for me and a child and thats it, I have been fleeced before so im in no position to hand anything over in name im not gullible enough. He was a little offended at this trust issue and said t me what can I do to prove to you.. This is why I think some should be aware yes, but also be lenient as there are loads who are genuine and to be fair I have had better treatment from him than I have a british man.

I just dont believe a scammer would work, live in a shared house to work on a relationship to do what all the others have done, thats my opinion anyway, at the end of the day I have nothing to lose apart from him,

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