I feel your pain !

Submitted by American Girl (United States), Jul 10, 2013 at 23:25

Sky that sounds so devastating and I think it's so hard for us to process this type of cruelty. I had a similar situation in a relation with a Turkish guy Here in the US- though different circumstances the basic thing that is exactly the same is the level of cold stone hearted- viscious way they exit the relationship with unfairly blaming and being hurtful and yes seemingly on purpose of hurting. My Turk broke up with me after treating me like a "princess" for so long and acting like he was my true love then becoming vile over a minor fight argument where I guess I broke the rules by questioning him! I was never called such bad names or treated with such hate in my life! He even texted me pictures of movies and gifts I gave him crumpled in the trash.

This all because I was miffed cause he didn't contact me one night so I was worried and a bit suspicious. He was outraged at my lack of trust so became a satanical animal . After all this I actually was stupid enough to go back with him and hAd a few other horrible 'break ups' until the final one. I guess they are so Good at fooling you in the beginning that they are head over heels in love you can't comprehend how they could really be heartless sick cold bastards who will throw you In the garbage stomp om you and feel no guilt or sense of humanity for hurting a kind person who loved them. It's so Terribly sad and leaves you broken.

I háve had boyfriends before - several European guys- Americans too / but I have never ever met a person that comes close To these Turks and their ways. I thought it was just a fluke but these many websites with so many sad stories really opened my eyes, really crazy stuff!

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