Advising Married Women

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jul 7, 2013 at 18:01

Hi Layla

Thanks for the feedback.

Women who are married (Orfi may be the exception) have a contract with the state, especially here in the First World. That means you don't just get to leave and have no obligations.

Also, marriage is not the finish line. VISA scam marriages may last months or even years before the real intention is revealed.

My concern on here lies with those who insist on shaping what I think about their marriage and spend more of their free time talking to me on here than to their partner. A good relationship should be able to speak for itself.

For some of the marriages, I have my doubts that it's as good or as smooth as people insist it is on-line, but that doesn't mean it's a scam or even a bad marriage.

I don't think anyone is ever correct 100% of the time, but I also know that over the years there are people who hover around here waiting for me to some kind of mistake so they can feel better about themselves or their relationship---and that's what a lot of this boils down to, or they wouldn't be on here. There's probably even wishing going that this respectable place would turn into an anti-Islam one just so they could use that to negate decent advice and continue to enjoy a what is likely a bad relationship.

Some will also say they want answers about Islam, but that is not the nature of this particular forum. In fact, I don't think a lot of writers here have even read the introduction to the blog or realize that Musllim men also advise that muslim men should have a relationship with non-Muslim women. I can only wonder why somoene who thinks the overall nature of this site is not friendly to Islam or "Pro-Israel" would it find it useful if it's so agitating and confrontational.

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