To Jenna. New relationship with Egyptian/Muslim Man

Submitted by Lilia (Russia), Jun 9, 2013 at 07:21

Hi, Jenna.

This man's story doesn't add up. He has a work visa in USA to serve desserts in restaurant. Seriously? H1B one? That's what he told you. For me looks like he can be there for tourist visa and work illegally. That's what they do. By the rules they can live up to 6 months by tourist visa in USA. They go to USA for 3-4 months and doing small illegal jobs then come back to their country so they not become illegal in USA, then go to USA again. And all this till they find someone who will marry them "for papers". They can make a deal by paying money but it's much cheaper to find someone who will believe in love. I dated one these guys briefly and he told me about this stuff. Many of his friends were up to it too.

He stopped having sex with you because of his religion. But why he even started? Looks like he is manipulating you. I think he want to get a citizenship by marriage. 3-4 years later he will get his citizenship and file for divorce immediately. And after it he will bring his family from Egypt to USA.

So it's better to leave him as soon as possible. You want some casual relationship, he wants marriage for visa. He will continue to push you and play games. Why you need someone like this? More you will stay with him more he will hurt you. And be ready that after you leave him he will try his best to get you back. So be strong and don't listen whatever he will try to tell you. That's all complete lies.

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