New relationship with Egyptian/Muslim Man

Submitted by Jenna (United States), May 28, 2013 at 21:38

Met a guy 33 y/o, while he was serving dessert at a restaurant in US. He ended up coming to get my number out the place that night. I was thrilled, but skeptical knowing he is here for work visa for a year from Egypt. He called, he wanted to have sex within first week, so I did...was Fantastic...lots of sex during the month , met his friends and now I am the girlfriend. Only one month later, he says he cannot have sex anymore unless he Marries me, it is wrong in eyes of Islam, and Doesn't know what to DO? ! Hello! I would have insisted on waiting.... Puts a real wrench into my (what I wanted - a casual relationship).

Another thing (flag) , he did tell me he was previously married to Muslim girl his Mother "gave " him at age 26, 3 kids later, he is now in US and says hes divorced. But not to tell anyone, like he is ashamed? or lying.... asked him if his kids are on FB, and he said yes, so now I am thinking he is still married and over here for work & money...he did mention that Muslims take many wives - but he needs Only One - ME ... I am backing off to see what his next move is....need advice

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