To luigi...

Submitted by Becs (United Kingdom), May 27, 2013 at 09:16

I have been re-reading your comments as I find them very useful.. Well an update on the situation is he started going out a few times which I didn't mind but as he always gives me grief I thought I would do the same.. I asked him all the same questions like he asks me.. Where you going? Who you going with? What time are you coming back? Well to can imagine his response.. Telling me I don't trust him, I even stupidly called him when he said he was on his way home.. He didn't answer told me the call never connected.. I didn't believe him and I told him this..

We ended up then having a big fight on Skype where he made me feel like a crazy person who was widely jealous.. This is not the case of course maybe I can be a little like most girls but I was trying to show him what he does to me.. He insisted he always wishes me a nice time when I go out which admittedly he does but this is followed my numerous messages questioning my whereabouts and even calls to check up on me but he didn't care as now the tables were turned he conveniently forgot all those times with me.. And now I am the bad person who doesn't trust me.. He did the whole closing down Skype which gets my back up.. Finally when we connected again he tells me unless I change!!! He doesn't need life like this!! Ha the cheek!! So I told him I won't change just as he hasn't and won't and so then it was ended on his say so..

This was 3/4 days ago and I have heard nothing.. Part of me is relieved as its what I needed to do but some stupid part can't help think he is playing games or already moved onto the next girl as I was too controlling and not confirming enough. Well I am sticking to my guns even if it kills me as no contact with him is the only way I can move on and get on with my life!! I have and will not message him now and have removed him from Skype I just need to stay strong as I have come this far and got back on my feet just need to get my confidence back.. My friends think I am bonkers and can do so much better as I am tall, blonde and good career so stop wasting my time on a life not worth living.. Good advice but I don't feel I am ever going to be happy I think this is what scares me most and why I kept holding on.. Pathetic really!! Anyway wish me luck and strength thanks again Becs

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