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Submitted by Layla (Ireland), May 2, 2013 at 20:52

I agree.. it is true there are scammers who arent as easy to catch as others.. but, lies are hard over a period of time.. I believe that he will be caught out eventually so women should take their time.. I would suggest to record your conversations somehow and read over them from time to time.. and after some time has lapsed.. cross examine him.. Check out his friends on his fb page.. search his emails on fb . If he has a small amount of friends on his page its likely to be a fake profile.. look through the male friends on his page.. they may lead u to another account that he has..Ask for his password and look through his block lists.. get him to talk about his friends.. dont b afraid to call him. any time any place.. its ur right,

When you are on the phone.. listen to background noises.. keyboard tapping or msg notification noises.. ask to speak to his sister or mother or tell him u want to meet them. on the cam. APPLY PRESSURE.. He might whine.. saying things like.. oh u make me sad blah blah.. This is emotional blackmail.. Brush it off by saying something like.. Listen, there are many risks on the net, im going to protect my dignity no matter the cost.. if you are not happy with that,, this is unfortuante but not my problem.. If he is genuine, he will accept this from you,,, and respect you because you have respect urself.. Do yourself a favour and dont suck up the crap of any man.... If he asks about your finances, say something like.. "excuse me,, but would you ask a woman from egypt, morrocco etc this question??? I think your finances are more relevant, not mine.. " To be able to catch these guys out, you have to know their culture.

I really hate these scammers.. the ruin it for the decent men out there.. My husband had a nightmare existance for three years.. I married him in the end cos i was satisfied.. and im a hard nut to crack.. but not without a pre nuptual agreement !!! Payoffs on divorce for me which reduce every five years .. the longer he stays in the marraige.. !! If you are in US or Uk get the prenuptuals drawn up in both countries.. the marriage contracts in Islam covers anything pertaining to these issues.. but just make sure its nto against the Quran. for example.. dont say something like.. "he is not allowed to take another wife" as this will make your conditions void on the marriage contract.. instead say something like " My permission must be sought before taking another wife" and lets face it.. your never gonna give it.. !!!!!!!! He will run a mile if his marriage intention is not serious.. cos the terms of the contract wil be hard.. Dont be an eejit for anyone!! If hes an asshole he deserves to pay anyway!!

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