UnPC theory re Muslim men/non Muslim women: Perhaps Western women prefer dominant and misogynistic men?

Submitted by Shishir (United Arab Emirates), Mar 18, 2013 at 14:03

Say what you want about Muslims or Arabs(here I will use them interchangeably as the same dynamic in gender relations applies) they sure know promote the desirability of themselves as a romantic interest.

Slight tangent: While this topic deals with Muslim men, I would mention something about Muslim women.There is a great deal of eroticism associated with Muslim women only because they are concealed.Indeed especially heavy lidded eyes of Arabs adorned with kohl practically blaze with sensuality through all encompassing abbaya and niqab.The other end of the stick is the belly dancer! Of course the very fact that these women are unavailable but non Muslim women are (for the most part) available for Muslim men to have all manner of relations with do cause some indignation to non Muslim men. On a very primal level non Muslim realize this is war but do not yet have the courage to say so.Only Zionist Jew,Sikh and Hindu men are exceptions to this rule.

Coming back to Muslim men..most female posters over here have dealt with Arabs. In an egalitarian society in the West where men and women are considered equal in most areas due to the influence of feminism compels many women to long for the pre modern era despite its less than enlightened views on women due to its emphasis on romance and chivalry.However this was predicated on the fundamental inequality which seems intolerable to modern Western women ie the man was inherently in charge and the leader( though not superior to women, the notion of superiority vs inferiority when it comes to men and women is nonsense as one cant survive with the other-QED). This notion survives even to this day in the most gender neutral and feminist countries such as say Sweden where men still propose, they lead in dancing,carry the bride over the threshold instead of vice versa.

A wise man once said when advising on the nature of women:Women are like politicians, dont listen to what they say but watch what they do! So inspite of feminist indoctrination that subservience to a man is bad they cant help but be intrigued by poetic,romantic,and pre modern men like Arabs who have old fashioned notions of gender relations.

Generally the women would go to the conquerors, often lot more willingly than us men would choose to imagine as it makes sense from a biological perspective. Notice the behavior of French and Dutch women during the Nazi occupation(and the vicious reprisals against those women after the Nazis were defeated).

Now seeing how the Western armies are militarily triumphant, how come Muslim women are not flocking to the harems of the NATO generals? Not so fast Jack. It does matter what you go to war for- last few wars against Muslim nations were a sort of social service on part of Western nations.As Mark Steyn put it-the U.S is now the most powerful NGO!To promote democracy ,multiculturism(only one way street here and I dont need to tell you which way that goes) and such. One part of this dynamic is intermarriage .Since marriage of Muslim wome and Western is less likely to happen( except in unsual, mysterious and fishy cases like disgraced Congressman Anthony Wiener and Huma Abedin) we are back to implicitly promoting Muslim men / Western women dynamic.

Women ,more than men, are herdlike and less individualistic. As the saying goes men use argument to win the crowd,women use the crowd to win the argument. When there is no stigma attached to their pre modern preference for a male, indeed when called out on it ,they can hide behind tolerance for multiculturism which feminism often does when questioned on why dont comment on the status of Muslim women.

Interestingly the exception to this dynamic is France. The real reason that young Arab men in France are so irate is that their women prefer French men as their beaus .This may stem from the unapologetic attitude France continues to have over their history of conquest of Muslim lands ,most notably North Africa where most of the French Arabs originate.It also helps that the French dont grovel to Muslim sensitivities and make zero effort in placating them when they erupt in rage due to say a blasphemous cartoon.Which is more than one can say for self dhimmizing and emasculated Anglo American counterparts.

I always felt that France really should be at forefront of counter terror and would be an invaluable ally (perhaps more than Israel) due to this unPC attitude.

Having lived in UAE for a while, I do notice a lot of local Arab men and Western women coupling but they are usually rather sordid and both sides are of ill character and it seldom ever works out.Part of the problem is often the type of woman who seeks out or is receptive to their advances are usually gold diggers.And local Emirati men are chastised for fraternizing with Western women.Its not always the case that "boys will be boys" is used to excuse male philandering.

In general however the men from the Levant do better with Western women as they are not as restrictive as the average Arab while still retaining some of the old world charm.

Interestingly I see a lot of Persian women/Western male coupling. I think Spenglers (David P Goldman's works.

I ,as an Indian male personally get a lot of interest from local Emirati women but am terrified to pursue it as I dont want to end up in ditch thanks to a hot headed brother obsessed with 'honor'(ird).

An Indian male dating an Emirati woman is somewhat like a black man dating a white woman in rural Alabama in 1950s-simply not prudent.

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