re my baby

Submitted by ElissaXX3 (United States), Jul 17, 2012 at 22:41

You have rights to your children..seems like you giving him all the control in the world. I dont understand as a mother that you would risk never seeing your children again to make him happy .You have to stop thinking so negatively and think about the welfare of the child(ren).....I made my choice and thought of me and the possibility of never seeing my daughter again and it was very simple...he had to go and I would never allow him to take my daughter there....my friend hasnt seen her child in over 2 years!! I took her as an example, along with his threats and never gave him the chance!!!

So,that man you married means more then your child(ren) do? You are more worried about keeping him in your life then the child? Im sorry to sound harsh, but I been there....no man is worth loosing the chance to see your children grow up!! They all say its a "visit" and they will be back. I never heard of a good outcome .And its up to you to sign for a passport and allow the child to go. once she is there he can apply for residency and your almost out of luck getting them back.

NO man is worth that pain of never seeing your kids...why are you giving him all the control in this situation? I can understand you may be afraid of him...there are ways out. I cant say what goes on in your home but it seems like you lost yourself to please him. are you willing to lose your child to please him also???? Thats what you have to answer for yourself.

.I would rather be alone then without my child. my child is more important then him or anything in the world. please stop allowing yourself to think he is the BOSS. you have rights and there are options here that doesnt include handing over your child to appease him...the risks are too great !! Morocco has very firm laws.. and its him who will decide IF the child is returned....and also,if you feel like your not being looked at as a proper wife and companion...they why would you allow this man to ever take the child there??? The red flags are flying ...do you not see them ?? I would offer my email to you but I dont know how to do that in this forum.

please dont feel as if I am being mean to you ....thats not my intention....I just want you to know the risks...this is another country with another set of standards for the fathers.its just not safe.please dont allow the child to go!!!

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