To Anna

Submitted by anon 1 (Morocco), Mar 24, 2012 at 21:19

Hello Anna ,your husband has cheated on you twice ,that you know about . He owns ,clothes, a car ,a computer and a phone. If he has not worked for four months ,how is he able to afford to pay his credit card bills ,food ,household bills e.t.c.?

What exactly do you love about him ?

Do you think he will stay with you forever?

Your husband has cheated on you ,more than once. Do you want your daughter to grow up thinking that it is ok to stay with a man that cheats on his wife ? Your daughter is young .Do you think that it will be easier or harder for her, if you leave him in a few years time ?

Anna have you been checked for S.T.Ds ? If your husband sleeps around does he practice safe sex ? What if he gets a girl pregnant one day ?

He is 32 years old . Does he always cheat on you with girls much younger than him ?

Love, respect, trust = A good marriage. How many boxes can you tick ?

If you stay with your husband ,will he continue to cheat ? Will his friends continue to cover for him ? Will you continue to check his phone,credit card e.t.c ?

Would he stay with you if you behaved how he did ?

Imagine this was happening to a friend of yours Anna .What advice would you give her ?

" Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't "

Erica Jong

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