They get out of every guilt

Submitted by A very concerned reader, Jan 22, 2021 at 16:47

Dear N & S,

I followed your case and I'm aware of it. I'm very sorry that happened to you. Remember you're not crazy. These users are sadistic narcissists able to make you go crazy and insane wondering if maybe they're right. Indeed, they use many manipulation tactics to get what they want from you. I hope you're feeling better now and were able to move on and leave this story behind. I believe in karma.

Yes, they can lie to protect themselves even if they're hurting others. The Qur'an teaches so. Even those who love them. They can lie their wives and tell them they're pretty even if they feel they're fat or ugly. It is said it is much better to avoid disputes. The same they do if they cheat on them to avoid hurting them. They will deny until their faces are blue. They have no remorse because that's what Islam teaches them from early age. As an example of how things work, they can extent the fasting for six days after Ramadan (it's called Shawwāl) to get even their next committed sins along the year erased, so go figure the licence the take to lie, sin and hurt. This fasting after Ramadan is equal to one year of fasting and, among other reasons, the fasting purpose is to have their sins forgiven. Forget this couple and their manners and mind games. You'll never understand this mentality.

Thank you for your comment. I drop here from time to time to keep warning new women and refresh the forum which sometimes gets stuck in debates that are far from its purpose. It is the forum which helped me in the first place to understand many things I was going through, so at one point, I decided it was my turn to help others as others' stories helped me.

It really doesn't worth to have a relationship with a Muslim man. They can drive you literally insane with their mind games and women lose much more than their health. I'm still stalked by him because still there are some gains he can get from me. There was never love. These men don't know what love is. They're raised in a controlled environment, patriarcal families. They only know how to dominate. The Qur'an teaches that women are their fields (properties) to play with whenever they please (Qur'an 2:223). Women must obey at all times or they have complete rights to punish them by exerting various forms of abuse, including physical. But believe me that from day one, they emotionally and verbally abuse their women.

I'll keep dropping in here to keep maintaining the high level of information about this topic as I have been doing so far because if I can save one girl from this nightmare, I will have succeed.

To Alicia, thanks a lot for your beautiful post. I saw myself reflected on it in many ways. I just went further and today, after a lot of work and time, I'm myself again but like you, even a better human being which was always the purpose of my life: keeping evolving, finding my inner-self and my very own path in life. Take care you too, N & S and Alicia and the rest of the gorgeous kind-hearted girls who come here to share their knowledge and love to help others.

Thank you.

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