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To Ajda and those who want to learn the truth about Muslim men

Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men

Submitted by A very concerned reader, Jan 21, 2021 at 23:00

"Women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity."(Qur'an 24:26)

If I don't post this verses, I'll not forgive myself...

Dear Ajda, dear readers,

After my last reply to you, I forgot to add this. The post was already too long. But whenever I comment on this forum, there's so much to say that there's always something more.

I have been here for a very long time now, and sadly, I have seen this drama going on in reality (so not only through the stories who are shared on here and other boards), and seems that will continue to happen in an endless cycle. I feel so much frustration that I can't even express with words.

Ajda and all Muslim women, this drama is also perpetuated by many of you, women, because many of these men do this in order to get the dowry to pay you all and accept these men in sacred marriage. You say that Muslim men are taught to treat Muslim women with utmost care. Well, we have seen and demonstrated in previous posts that this is not true, and Muslims women are having sex with men more than they can admit for obvious reasons.

So Muslim men have sex with you, despite that Islamic education if they have the opportunity, and also, they turn to western woman to get all the benefits plus the sexual advances that they can't get from their Muslims future spouses.

Well, some Muslimahs are contributing to getting your religion tinted, because you can see you're not marrying "men of purity" by any means! Many Muslim women (I'm not saying that you do) turn a blind eye and accept that these men scam innocent women for their own benefit. Many know they're husbands are hunting westerners to get a permanent residence in a wealthier country and allow this to happen for the sake of their family. Many Muslim women allow their men to have temporary marriages and co-wives for getting profit.

Western women know little to nothing about Islam in so many cases as everyone can see just having a look at the not-so-well-documented forums as this one and other informal forums about relationships, so for them, it's impossible to forseen this destiny which the ongoing visa scam drama brings along with it.

Muslim women accept all because all is written in the Qur'an, the hadiths and the Sharia Law. And then, these women come here to say western are not women of purity who may deserve their so called men of purity...

I'm sorry if I sound harsh. It's not my intention and I don't know how you practice your religion, but something must be wrong in Islam for this phenomenon to be happening. And western women deserve to know these facts to not fall into this trap. It's the only way to put a STOP ON IT.

Thank you.

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