Thank you, Lana

Submitted by Numina (Norway), Nov 3, 2020 at 17:50

Thanks, Lana. Yes I am aware of the stories you mention as well as many others narrated on this forum. If you read from scratch this board, you can see a very clear pattern.

In the "best" scenario, women who defended their men were different and didn't push them into Islam end up scammed and heartbroken by one of these men, which looks easy to say. In the worst one, when the men want to keep them in their lives because on their weird way they "love" them (it's never love but ownership), women revert for the sake of love, abandon their families, roots and upbringing, end up isolated and living a hell in life which it very difficult to get out from.

That's why researching religion/culture is a must because women will find out the real motive that these men have towards them. After that, it will be their choice how they want to live their lives.

On a side note, Lana, women should also open their eyes in regards to what's going on in France lately. I don't even want to open that debate in here. But please, women out there, get to know your men before you bring them to our countries. They don't need to be terrorists to think that freedom of speech must be punished. Our families worked hard to achieve the freedom we experience today. Do not let them bring us centuries back. Thank you.

Take care as well, Lana, and good job at remaining strong and to not cave in into his tricks to make you come back. You're a strong woman and did set up a great example to follow by those who want to get rid of a life full of turmoil and deception. Thank you for having the courage to tell others and try to educate them on this subject.

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