Why are you confused, my dear?

Submitted by Numina (Norway), Oct 27, 2020 at 21:22

Please Jo, tell me that you have already gotten rid of this abuser!

He calls you names, drinks, push you to marriage because he is badly desperate to get out of his third world country, so HE'S PLAIN AND FLAT ABUSING YOU and you still wonder if he's a good match for you and feel confused???? By the way, older women with kids is totally incompatible with younger than you Muslim men. If you're not an untouched girl in her early twenties, you'll never be accepted by his mother.

Do your homework and you'll find out that Pakistani men never marry out of their clan. They marry among their relatives and playing with women over the Internet is their pastime, nothing but HARAM (FORBIDDEN) in this culture. He would be punished with lashes in his country for such a thing. Forget about him before he sucks you dry. They like to play western women like a fiddle in the best scenario just to have a bit of fun sex over the net. In the worst one (like yours), they marry you for a visa and will get all your moneys before they dump you to marry in their country and bring back the new wife. Get out of this relationship please and look for counselling to help build up your self-esteem!!!

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