Hey Robin and all.

Submitted by Chelsea (United States), Sep 22, 2020 at 15:05

Wow. I was catching up on some stories on here. I moved AGAIN. Life is good and only problem I have is dealing with drug smoking neighbors. I too had to start over by myself and I am thankful.

I look back and think how could I have been so foolish but like you I withdrew my sponsorship and left him hanging. One of the good decisions that both of us made.

To those struggling still...just know that these boys are nothing more than a gigalo looking for the highest bidder that are vulnerable enough to swallow those pretty romantic words that we THINK we are so desperate to hear.

At the end of mine when I had my attorney withdraw all... I was utterly disgusted and sickened. I wanted nothing but OUT.

Mine still tries to contact me. I left facebook because of his nonsense. He will try my email some and tries to manipulate me by 6 year old photos of us... But I see it for what it was and is.

Women ... Don't just don't.

Glad to see you here Robin and others. I hope this site is helping. It was the best support group I found when I was "confused".

Robin and I have almost identical stories and I hope this group has helped you.

Best I can say is don't waste your time on these boys.

Take care everyone.

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