Just because he says you are does not mean it is true.

Submitted by Chelsea (United States), Jun 16, 2020 at 14:12

Of course he is going to say these things. They NEVER take responsibility for the wrong they do to unsuspecting loving women.

NO YOU ARE NOT CRAZY...YOU ARE HURT!!

Better to know the truth about this low life than to spend life with him. Let that other woman have that problem because he will do it again and to HER.

He is using projection to cast you in a bad light because he is scum and he knows it. Do not believe what he says about you. He does not define who you are, nor does this situation. I can tell you all of us have felt low like this but in time going NO CONTACT you will see that you are better than this and too good for him.

In time you will heal as we all have. It is not always easy but take control of your own thoughts about yourself and take back your power to be who you were created to be. He did not deserve you.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. Please hang in there...DO NOT EVEN TRY TO LOOK FOR HIM ANYWHERE. Toss him like the trash he is. YOU HAVE GOT A LIFE TO LIVE.

What he says should not even be taken seriously based on his low morals. Consider the source. Work on making your life so wonderful that you will forget he even existed. Yes it is possible because we have been on the hurt side too and came out better than before. Be thankful that she has him and not you.

Start now to build a life that does not include even a thought of him. You can do it.
We are with you.

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