I am glad you did!

Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), May 5, 2020 at 01:20

Hello Amdm and welcome to the forum!

I am glad that you found this page rather sooner than later,and now have a better understanding of how the sweet talk can lead to a disaster .The more you got involved, the easier it gets for them to milk you for more money and gifts,etc.
Those sweet words are like the hooks in your brain,reminding you of the sweet moments together while making you to forget about the pain and despair that comes after.

Somehow ,being a good hearted person, makes you an easy prey for someone. like those scammers.They feel women like you from the distance,they are proficient with playing with the hearts of naive and inexperienced in such scam,women.

Being decent human being, we are not prepared for such cruelty and that someone we gave a benefit of a doubt ,could use our best qualities against us, to his advantage.

Those scumbags will not stop until they get what they want from you IF YOU ALLOW IT!
They could even swear on Quran that they are decent and pious people,while sleeping around and milking an infidels for the money!
An entire family can be on the scam too!They are well aware,but can't resist an easy money.

Be extremely careful with taking pictures together or letting him taking pictures of you and keeping it! You never know where it may end up!
They have an albums filled with pictures of naive women-only to tell their compatriots of how many infidels they were sleeping with(even if you did not sleep with him at all),for them -they see it as a personal revenge to use an infidels to their advantage!
To them-we are kaifirs, therefore they do not see us as an equal human beings.

Use your brain rather than your heart,do not allow yourself to fall into the trap of illusions and emotions he created in your head
.Cut him off completely and for good!
He is not disabled, so he can work and get paid,instead of milking you with sweet words (which is the easiest way to get money) and later leaving you behind with an empty bank account and broken heart.

By the way -it is a shame and big dishonor for true Muslim man to ask a woman for money.

So-no matter what he says-he is lying to you and clearly using you and your good nature to his gain.Who knows of how many other women he milks at the same time,using sweet talk,effortlessly playing with their hearts.

P.s.Just curios-are you a musician?
(I am asking just because of your forum name))

Be well and be safe!!!

Hugs
Lana

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