That's what I expected

Submitted by Tracey (United Kingdom), Jan 25, 2020 at 14:17

Hi Hope
That's what I expected you to say. It's scary and sickening and hard when you love someone. It makes me think is he fake?
All his family know who I am but I have no idea where the wife is ... he speaks to me for hours at home I'm bed on video call so where she is I do not know (he denies he is married and his family do)
Yes he has asked me for money and if I don't send or give him money we argue and fight. I've stopped the money when I had an inkling he got married after going back home from leaving me within two weeks. Sometime I feel that's all we are about is money ... which he goes mad when I say that and says I'm talking stupid! I don't pay for anything when we are together.
He doesn't want to live in the U.K.
You are right they don't care ...
I don't think they marry for love either .. he was with me two before his 'wedding' and back with me three weeks after his 'wedding'
Thank you for the advice and help it really has made me see things a bit clearer ... he has a way of playing with my head then I feel guilty and give in to him x

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