So confusing

Submitted by Tracey (United Kingdom), Jan 23, 2020 at 17:50

He doesn't want to live here, he said about coming to visit to see how I live but he would rather me live there with him.
Oh he hates been told what to do and never accepts 'no' as an answer. We get on really well and I have fallen head over heels in love with him, it's just wether I think he is genuine or not.
How much on average do they pay for 'the bride' does her family have the money/gold or does she?
He makes it quite clear I'm 'his' and he is very jealous and can be controlling ... asking who I'm talking too, checking my phone etc
We have spoke about children and getting married ... I've said to him I think you will marry a Kurdish girl and he said he wouldn't he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me ... like I said I think he has already got married. If he has he is never home, he's out all day and comes back late at night then he video calls me for hours so where this wife is hidden I have no idea.
I don't think I will ever find out the truth ... it's so hard! It feels so right but so wrong of that makes sense ...

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