I agree with you

Submitted by Tracey (United Kingdom), Jan 22, 2020 at 17:38

Yes I met him in Turkey. I've been back four times - in and out of season. Like I said we speak everyday on the phone .. we have spoke about everything that's why it hurts so much when I have a gut feeling he got married within two weeks I came home from seeing him in November. Even now he denies that he is married.
I have saw him when he is angry - what he says goes and that isn't the type of woman I am. I will give and take and I'm a laid back placid person ... he has no patience at all and doesn't take 'no' for an answer. We have argued and he did raise his hand to me ... which I argued back. He wasn't like that at first but the last few times he has raised his hand.
I go back every month two weeks at a time so we have spent lots of time together ... he treats me like a queen until we argue or I don't agree.
I've booked my flight to see him in two weeks ... he says how can I be married when I spend so much time with you and if I'm not with you we on phone together all the time .... then he drags his family into it ... I'm just confused ... I want to believe him ... then I think where is she hiding if he has a wife .... he told me he hates where he is from and no women go out they just stay at home. .... I am the complete opposite to that.
It hurts when he says he wants to marry me and have children with me ...
I've read all the stories and I just do not know what to believe ...
He told me he got asked for an arranged marriage but he said no ... his brother married an English girl so I know his family accept that ....
He tells me he wants to spend his rest of his life with me but how will that happen??? Just so confusing ... x

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