Confused

Submitted by Lou (United Kingdom), Dec 13, 2019 at 08:12

Hi all,
I'm back with some news and would also like your opinions.
I haven't spoken to my husband for over 10 weeks now and he had kept threatening me that if I did not go to his country then he would get remarried and I kept saying no I will not come there. I had told him that if he wanted to meet with me again then to meet me in Turkey instead of everything being his way all the time.
He kept threatening me about remarriage and I would say to him go ahead and do that.
Then he would say he didn't want to marry anyone else and that he loved me.
I think he may have been promising his family that I would come to his country etc... with money and now it didn't look good for him.
He also said to me at one point, they have told him not to talk to me. I don't know who he meant.
I haven't heard from him for around 10 weeks and this is very unusual for him, but I spoke with a friend a few weeks ago who knows one of his friends and it was like she was seeking information from me and I did not talk about him but she started talking about him and I told her that he was threatening me and I told him to go ahead and remarry. She seemed quite surprised and said oh he's been speaking like that to you, I said yes so I told him go and do it then.
Then I also told her that I was starting divorce proceedings, so I'm quite sure he will have been told about this.

I just can't believe that after everything I did for this man the minute I started to put my foot down with him the threats began etc.. and it would seem to me like he has gone now and I feel very depressed but I cannot contact him as I think it may be a trap and either he has got married or they are trying to gain the upper hand.
It's like I have no closure or anything.
What should I do?

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