He might be fishing for a better match.

Submitted by Baboon2 (United Kingdom), Oct 11, 2019 at 04:32

Dear Eli,

I have entered this forum quite late and many things might have happened in your life by now.Please ignore my mail if you have alreafy determined your line of action.
What does he mean by he will be a better Muslim if you convert to Islam?It's plain deception.He might now be looking for a more well settled woman in the U.S.and tell her the same thing.Nobody becomes a better Muslim or Christian by converting othets to their own faith if they aren't the best Muslims or Christians in the first place and not converting you to his faith should be the real test of his loving you.He as a Muslim can have 4 official wives and innumerable concubines.
Ideally,if he said he lives you first should prompt him to convert to your religion and let your children decide-after they reach the sge of maturity-what religion they would adopt and practice.

Leave him and liberate yourself from the clutches.Marry a great man from your country when you can get help should you be mistreated.You can also get a North American husband if you are destined to get one--belonging to your faith.
Shake him off and be safe and happy.Looks don't matter and manners could be superficial.There are many deceptions permitted in his holy book and he could be adept at them.Be careful.

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