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Drop him,Lilly.It is pointless....Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), Aug 31, 2019 at 01:11 08/31/19 They are masters at creating an illusion of whatever you want to see in them,filling the gaps of missing information with fantasy and future faking,telling you the words you want to hear.So,once they sense that you are into him-it will be easy for them to manipulate your emotions and to get what they need from you or give you a silent treatment when you are not behaving the way they expect from you.This is a trick that most manipulators use in order to attach the victim emotionally:it's called"closer-further".They put you on an emotional swing,creating chemical imbalance in your brain,which leads to an emotional attachment.You start to think of his behavior more and more,trying to reason it in your head. If you make your desicions out of guilt and fear, and your gut feeling tells you that something does not adds up and it feels wrong-MORE LIKELY-IT IS WRONG! I am glad that I am past this pain and can use my experience to help the others to avoid this trap of the grand illusion of love they fall into. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Comment on this item
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