Feeling used and dumb, you will have more nights like that one, but...

Submitted by Keira (Australia), Aug 28, 2019 at 18:05

There is nothing you can do now to feel better... I know it is hard to move on and accept what has happened to us. The more you investigate their media and analyse your previous conversations and messages, the more shit you will find about your man. It is like this. Raw, but very true. What you can do is coming here to remain strong and refrain yourself from contacting him or looking for info about the past. Try to live in the now.

I know that it is very tempting to contact her. I can imagine what you must have felt when you found out that Instagram account... But if I were you, I would do nothing. Think that, like you, she must not have known anything about you. She married him for the sake of love and that deep was her love that she even converted! Imagine, given the fact that she has abandoned Islam after the divorce, this means that she didn't convert because she fell in love with Allah... She did it because it was the only mean to get married this man. Both of you were tricked and duped. Do not waste time. You will only feel worse than you do now.

All in all, be compassive, forget about it and don't even look at this account anymore to hear from her. It is much better for you that you move on and forget that once upon a time you loved this liar, this traitor, this womaniser... You deserve better and being in touch with this woman would open a very dangerous path for you, who knows which things she could tell you?, and you will suffer again. Do not go for more pain. Hold up, stay away for your own good and take care of yourself to heal. Here you have us to listen to you and unwind your pain.

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