Laura,listen to your inner self

Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), Aug 27, 2019 at 23:23

Dear Laura

You have to be honest with yourself and answer some questions sincerely:

Is he a good friend to you?

What in particular do you like about this man that makes you want to keep him?

Do you have a lot in common?

Does he respects your needs, choices, demands ?

Is he smart, honest,protective, caring, gentle with you?

Did he make your life better?

Look at your life with him 10 years later:

If he loses his looks, becomes less attractive, becomes even more grumpy ,getting older,going through the aging changes, will you still find him lovable?

What if he is cheating-will you be able to take him back?

If the answers are NO,then you know what to do-
CUT HIM LOSE!

Live the life you want to live, not the one, he tries to mold you into.

All the best to you!!!
Hugs
Lana

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