I am at a loss for words here

Submitted by Chelsea, Aug 26, 2019 at 17:44

I am sorry you wasted 15 years. Yes he is a sociopath. I feel for you in that I did not care about what I spent or anything else EXCEPT for the 2 years I wasted on him. Yours leaves me speechless, shocked and sad.

I would not say that you are dumb. You were used yes, but not dumb. At this point I am glad that you do know the truth and that life is not over for you. I am glad you came to the forum and welcome. Your story will help so many that are in the throws of this right now. I would like to say thank you for your courage in posting your story. It helps more than you can imagine.

It is not dumb to love, trust and give loyalty to someone. It is dumb to use, lie, deceive and hurt someone like you. There is no getting away with wrong doing and he will reap what he sowed.

I hope that you will stay with us and help others. It gives purpose to our pain and help to others. Again I am shocked speechless at the time he took from you. I hope that you cut that off from your life and find yourself and a life full of peace now and joy.

This breaks my heart to read. Sorry just is not enough to say for all that time. But thank you is because your story may be just what someone needs to hear right now. So thank you and welcome to the forum.

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