Oh dear Lou...

Submitted by Keira (Australia), Aug 23, 2019 at 16:18

He sounds like a really psycho controller. I'm glad to hear you don't have media at all. Yes, of course you're right. They isolate you to the point there may not be anyone left to talk. At the beginning, you think that they warm you about other to protect you and so they do it out of love. But then you realise it is just a technique to isolate you and have all the control over you. First thing they try is to put you against your family. What a partner...

I really understand what you mean. Don't need explanations. This board makes me come to my senses if I even think about contact him again or miss him badly. Keep coming here as much as you can because by reading all these horror stories and all the damage they have done to us, it is next to impossible to come back to them.

I understand your fear if he crosses all boundaries to reach you. They are very persistent and they are trained to have lots of sabr. But as I said in another post, if they sense you are there for them even a little, they won't give up.

Are you sure you cannot alert the authorities and inform them about all his threats??? You need real protection. At least, you will find in here a place where you will be supported and understood...

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