I am glad that you ended it!

Submitted by Lana(USA), Aug 23, 2019 at 13:26

Dear Didi
I am so glad that you,yourself had enough strength and courage to end this nonsense!
This coward will never be able to give you a closure,you needed to hear,unless you do it yourself!
The reason for that is that he feels like he is entitled to come back into your life at any moment,as for him it is never ending story.
He would continue to feed you with sweet words,empty promises and multiple lies to drive you insane,to have you back,to get what he wants and to discard you later after his needs are met.

You don't need to babysit a grown up man,who is not even mature enough to take a responsibility for his own actions,to support and provide for his woman,without being mama's boy!

I guess that you would never find out if anything of what the says,is true!
It will spin in your mind over and over,until one day you will cross him off your life for good and make a room for someone real,responsible and loving.

They take pleasure of emotional manipulation, lying,cheating and torture women.For them- more-the better!!!
So what kind of a man he is???? Lousy one!Immature,irresponsible,lying,cheating,manipulative,abusive...the list goes on.
Stay strong and do not give in,no matter how sweet he may sound or how promising.
Stand your grounds!!!!
We are here for you!

You had enough time to learn:those men never change,even for someone they may have feelings for.

Big hugs to you!
Lana

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