Staying one step ahead of them!

Submitted by Lou (United Kingdom), Aug 22, 2019 at 15:44

Yes your all right about going no contact and I made a big mistake the other month.
He doesn't know where I currently live, I've told him a different town from where I actually am. But I was showing his cousin from my window on FaceTime outside as his cousin has not been to the U.K. little did I know my husband took a photo shot of a building just up the road which has a company sign on it.
A few days later he said I know where you live, I said so what and then he said look across the road and there is a sign and he knew the company name. I acted like I didn't care. But was thinking what the hell.
Last year he sent a friend to my relatives home, my husband didn't actually know the address but knew where it was and so he must have showed his friend on the phone where to go and luckily they my relatives didn't answer and not long after I told him that this relative no longer lives there and they moved. My husband will most likely believe me as I don't usually lie.
So if I go no contact then I may have to move as I got a feeling even though he's not in my country he will send someone if my number changes.
So probably what I need to do is move and then go no contact.
We have to be one step ahead!
These people don't seem to have any morals and just seek power and control or something.
They think they can do what they want.
And do as I say, not as I do.
And a Muslim man is supposed to be the provider and any money the wife has is hers and she only has to spend if she wants to contribute.
In this case I was just yeah an atm machine and the Bank of England!
In fact one day he said to me, you come from a rich country and I replied so what they don't give us the money for free.

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