Manipulation and brainwashing techniques, you say it!

Submitted by Keira (Australia), Aug 20, 2019 at 15:22

Robin, I cannot agree more with you. I'm on the same boat right now. Cutting all contact is vital to survive to these men.

Yes! Mine told me that I wasn't going to find a better guy because at my age (late 30's), only short-term guys would find me useful, but just for having sex, of course. After that, they would leave me like nothing had happened... Because of this "logical reasoning", he tried to convince me that polygamy was my best option! Yes! Because he would love me for real and would take excellent care of me... the days of the week in which I would have the honour to have him, of course! Under the Islamic umbrella, I would have been protected and happy... And don't forget my reward for following the Haddith and make my man happy!! I will come back with a very detailed post about all their tricks and how all is written in the Qur'an. We women are less than second class citizens. .

If they even make you think about proposals like this crazy one (as Luigi has said many times, you can be the most ardent feminist or an atheist, they will manage well to make you fall into this sick shit), it is very apparent that we can be very manipulated and abused. They are very intelligent and good at words. Very well trained since they start learning the Qur'an when they're 5. They play with your fears. Your fears of being lonely the rest of your life... Not having more kids... They study you very well before they put their plan in place and then, they only have to say the right words and press the right buttons.

Lou must get a lot of support and help now. Cutting all the connection is mandatory because they can control us through the media when they are not close to us. They can even have friends spying us and we wouldn't even notice... They rely on their kind to help them. It is really scary.

Congrats Robin for 5 months withouth this psycho in your life. It is hard to ignore them but the taste of the freedom is so good... From day one I cut all contact I noticed a great difference in my mood, behaviour... I could focus on another important things and the most important thing... BREATH. Don't allow him to get back. Never. They never bring anything good. Only more pain and deception. The more we hold, the difficult to get out of them. And our freedom, girls, is something very precious that we must appreciate and conserve.

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