They are narcissistic and abusers

Submitted by Keira (Australia), Aug 19, 2019 at 16:37

To Mandy and all of those who ask why a woman, educated and intelligent, cannot get out for these relationships or why it takes too long to do it...

We are no idiots. We are empaths. They prey on women with these characteristics because we are easy to brainwash and manipulate. Most of us have been terribly hurt in past relationships and we are very caring and love-thirsty persons. So, we fall into the trick so damn easily...

Yes, they use their holy book to convince us that they are not scammers and deceivers. They are told to mold women by using domestic violence (they use all the methods that they have in hand such as silent treatment, controlling behaviour, emotional punishment and of course, some of them may hit their women). And the Qur'an encourages all these abusive means. It is really scaring.

Yes, Lou is right. If you think that they cannot control you because they live thousand kilometres away, you are very wrong. They handle it very well to control your every move.

They suck your identity, your beliefs and your self esteem until there is nothing left if you haven't opened your eyes in time.

But the good thing here is that Lou has come to this board. This means she is on the right path now. And thanks to strong women and wise men who post here, these women (I was one of you too, wanting so badly thatbhr was different) can see the light and start over from scratch but wiser and stronger than before.

Lot of lovex Lou. You're not alone!!!! Get out of this sick nightmare and divorce him now!

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