To Lou

Submitted by Hope (United Kingdom), Aug 19, 2019 at 14:42

This is what they do - swearing on their so called holy book means nothing. My ex did the same and also swore on his parents lives too. They will say anything for you to believe them. They also always blame anyone and everyone else but themselves.........they do not believe they are ever wrong. They lie, lie and lie some more, their religion allows it especially to us who are allegedly non believers / infidels etc. You can rebuild your life Lou, you do not deserve any of this and you can become strong, independent, happy etc once more. Please don't go to him, you need to stay safe in your own country. You do not know what he or his family are capable of doing. My ex husband tried to get me to go to Turkey whilst we were going through a divorce in the UK - why, for what reason? He is Kurdish. I would never have gone...........my safety was and is paramount. Go with your gut, you are questioning it all, you have come on this website, you are researching - believe what your body / mind is telling you. Good luck.

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