Mena man.Turkish lying boyfriend

Submitted by Ella (Australia), Jun 3, 2019 at 02:23

You will all say we told you so.But maybe my post helps warning other's.When Mena man became ill I took him to the Doctor.He could not work for weeks.Did asked me twice for money small amount.Payed it back soon.I thought there you go.He is a good man.But the soul connection in general more and more lacked of depths.He works long hours.Ok too tired I thought and he says his body is breaking down.But my gut instinct told me something else is going on in his life.He does send money to Turkey.I understand that.He told me he needs to see his son in August.I knew it from day one.But he has a friend who committed a fraud instance.Married Muslim man to Aussie/Turkish wife.My boyfriend told me many times that man is lying to everybody.He is not good.Last week my boyfriend sent me a txt when I was working and
asked me for- a this time high amount of - money.Because he lost the money from his delivery job and his company would sack him if he doesn't deliver the customer money.He said he is so sad and worried all night
he apparently looked everywhere for the money but could not find it.He would loose his job.Last thing I want for him is to lose his job.So instantly I gave him the money.He looked totally exhausted and tired and sad and I believed him I had a bad cold as well.I didn't think straight.So all didn't really sink in because I trusted him.He cooked for me and made me hot tea with lemon etc.two days later and said he loves me so much.But he did not come very close
Yes I had a bad cold and didn't want to give it to him.But I felt somehow distance.He said after cooking for me he will go back to his place.And then he told me just shortly before he left that he will fly to Turkey one month earlier with that fraud friend.Who nearly went back to Turkey couple weeks befor to run away from.fraud problems....My boyfriend says :I will make business with him.His friend (who also cheats on his wife by the way if he gets a chance but they love each other....).

My cold was so bad i could not think straight.What a timing that he lost company money and now he is flying earlier with his trouble mate......I told him that the next day that I think he had staged everything.He now promised to pay back my money before his holiday.And he said you don't trust me.You hurt my heart.Apparently he wants to borrow money from elsewhere to pay me back.He is disappointed and sad.This is couple days ago and I have heard nothing or an apology.I am blown away by the acting of sadness and how he staged the whole scenario.He would win an Oscar for his performance.I am still in disbelieve how low he had gone to lye to me.I thought I was prepared but wow....There is no coming back from this.They really do not respect a non Muslim woman.I can't even cry because I am still in shock about this. He rather helps his friend and betrays me.unbelievable.So yes there you go.What I was told on this forum unfortunately came true.Thank you Chelsea and others.Now I will grieve and move on.Never never go out with a mena man again.

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