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HELP! Engaged to a Moroccan

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Submitted by DIDI (Morocco), May 27, 2019 at 00:02

Ok, so while searching for advice on Moroccan men, I came across this site. And reading all of the tragic stories now has me suspicious.. which I should've been anyway, but never would have imagined how deep this ran. NOW, I'm confused and need advice.

Ok, so I'm an American, early 30s. Was on vacation in Europe when I met a Moroccan guy in Italy. Of course, hit it off, they are so gorgeous! He doesn't speak English, luckily we both speak some Italian. So, we exchanged numbers and talked. He initially didn't know I was American, I didn't share this right away. Honestly I didn't realize he wasn't European as he has a very fair complexion. He of course laid on the charm heavily, we chatted while I was there. I broke the news a week later I was leaving and that I was actually American. He broke it off saying he was looking for someone local and doubt his family would approve of an American, this is when he advised me of him being Moroccan, Arabic, and Muslim.

I accepted, got back to the US. but couldn't stop thinking about him. So I called him and asked why he had turned me down just bc I was an American. He explained culture differences, perceptions of Americans, etc. I said we should at least try bc things were going well, my family isn't racist, and love could conquer all. He said he'd talk it over with his family and if they were ok, we could continue. Of course a couple days later, he called and said family would like to eventually meet me, but was ok with the relationship.

So we chatted by video. He called me all the time, even when he was at work. I fell head over feet! Then he loss his job. Again, he called it off saying a man with no job isn't worth marrying. Me being me, called the next day saying I was still interested. Yes I know, stupid of me. He explained he was an illegal immigrant and was not likely to find work so easily. He said I was better off moving on and he was better off searching for a European lady to marry so he wouldn't be on the streets.

Again, I stupidly called him back and said love conquers all and believe we met for a reason. I offered him cash, he refused. I offered to pay for an apartment, he refused. He said he was a man and didn't need anything. So he was homeless for a few months, we talked anytime he could work a little and pay for his cell minutes and could charge the phone. Winter time roles around and he's sleeping outside and gets really ill, he has to be admitted to the hospital. He was so ill he couldn't even speak hardly, so the doctor asked who he wanted to call to help translate, and he said me. So here I was sitting in my office chatting with an Italian doctor who said he's got to get off the streets. I told him I was finding him a place and that was that, I cared for him. I didn't know what the future held, but I was paying rent for a couple months so he could get on his feet. He refused to let rent him a full apartment bc it was too expensive, so he got a room on airbnb for cheap and asked if I could send a little money for food. He was barely eating once a day. So he again called it off bc he felt like I saw him as charity and wouldn't respect him bc he didn't work. And he assumed I must be desperate or a whore to be with a man like him bc women in Morocco paid him no mind bc he was from a poor family.

I'm sure this is part of their scam. But I fell for it. Told him I was a Godly woman, didn't see him as charity, just like helping him bc that is love in America. He seemed amazed by this. He was 40, gorgeous, and never married bc he was poor. He assumed he'd have to wait to find a woman interested, but felt that Allah must've loved him alot bc he sent me. So he asked if I was interested in marriage and kids, I said yes. So he asked if I wanted to live in the US. I said yes. So he invited me to come visit Italy again. So I came for a 2 week visit and rented a cheap place for us. We had a great time, except a couple hiccups. He revealed his jealousy... and proceeded to tell me what I could no longer wear, no longer go, and deleted 90% of my FB pics. Ok, I let it slide bc I knew it was coming with a muslim guy. I video chatted with his entire family, they all seemed to approve. They seemed particularly happy that I was not white and thought we'd make great looking babies. That's when the pressure started. They wanted us married and working on a baby. Why the rush I ask him? He said bc he was already 40 and needed to settle down. He said some of the family was initially hesitant but got on board when the realized I was not white and thought I looked pretty enough to fit in? (?)

So we looked into the fiance visa.. wait times was a year, he said too long for him to be without papers. So he suggested I temporarily move to Europe and we work on 1-2 year residency there, then move to the US later. Ok, that sounded like a good idea as I had wanted to take a couple years break from the mundane corporate life in the US. So I did, after a few hiccups, I got a short term visa to stay but not to work. Which he seems ok with, as long as he can work. So here's where things turn...

We're 2 months away from our planned wedding and some things are bothering me. First off, he has a very bad temper. He warned me, but I wasn't prepared for this. He did slap me 2x already, which the 2nd time I slapped him back. He hasn't done it sense but he was so angry when I slapped him back, we had a huge fight that lasted all night, included him calling it quits, and screaming half the night how he didn't love me anyway just wanted a green card. Mind you, he and I decided to stop using birth control and let it happen naturally if we got pregnant bc he all of a sudden wanted a baby bc the family was pushing it. In this fight he says he only wanted the baby so it would look good for immigration! I couldn't believe the kind, loving, but stubborn man I'd come to love was so hateful! The look in his eyes was so mean but almost comical, he was definitely trying to hurt me. He said he knew he could not trust me, that I wasn't even marriage material and planned on leaving soon as he got his papers bc he'd never love me or the kid, we were just a stepping stone. He said he'd tried to call it quits but I begged him to come back so he did so he could get the visa. I tried to be tough and act like it didn't bother me, so I said fine, tomorrow I'll be leaving back to the US.

So I grabbed a blanket and went to sleep on the couch. His brother called me like normal to chat. As soon as he saw my face he knew something was wrong. I told him what he'd said and that we were done. His brother tells me that he is saying that only to hurt me bc he's upset and treats everyone that way. But deep down he has a good heart and will calm down and apologize tomorrow. I was like how could someone say such hurtful things and I broke down in tears. He overheard my breakdown and came out of the bedroom and instantly started apologizing for saying things he didn't mean. That he was just so hurt that I'd slapped him back he wanted to really hurt me. He said he wouldn't allow me to sleep on the couch and he'd leave that night if I wanted him too. I was so confused, I just fell asleep with him holding em. He apologized and I forgave him. He has not hit me anymore, we talked how this was a very bad thing in Western culture and a man who loves a woman doesn't hit her. He agreed and catches himself. He has loss his temper 2 other times at night which I have to really work to calm him down. The last couple times he packed his stuff and left,only to come back an hour later and apologize. Reminding me he told me from the beginning he has a temper and when he's mad he says hurtful things. And yes, I've seem him treat his family like this too. They seem to be used to it and just let it slide.

So here we are, I just found out I am pregnant last week. He's so happy. The wedding date is set. I went to visit his family in Morocco last month and stayed for 4 weeks. They were all nice... too nice in fact it felt fake. Today he told me he was really, really sorry for how he's treated me and that he wants to work on this. He did ask for me to start covering my body once we're married like traditional Muslim women. He said after we are married, he wants to move (he has a job offer), and for us to start fresh away from family and friends. He said he hasn't been the best person to me, but wants to be the best husband and father. He said he's been very stressed due to how he was raised and trying to balance that with who he wants to be. He said he just wants me and him and our baby to start fresh and not let anyone else interfere or have any say so. He asked that I not discuss our plans or problems with anyone in his or my family bc he doesn't want anyone having a say so, this is our life.

What do you all think, is this all part of the scam? Do you think when he's angry he's truthful? Think maybe he was scamming but wants to change? Help, I'm so confused. I've accused him of scamming, he threw a fit. He reminded me he'd never asked for anything until he was desperate. He is asking me not to work. He wanted to start a family right away. And he called it off many times. He also advised me that if I wanted to wait for him to get established before marriage, he would be ok with that bc he wasn't a scammer. Sure papers to the US would be good but just to visit, he didn't think we could afford to live there now without both of us working and that was out of the question. So what do ya'll think? Anyone have a similar experience?


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995 percent wrong about married to mena [39 words]AnnesseJun 5, 2019 06:26250279
6More questions for the "genius" our dear Asiyah and other sordid matters [181 words]dhimmi no moreJun 6, 2019 08:44250279
6Dear readers: Are these words of wisdom? Or is this more gobbledygook nonsense from our dear Asiyah? [60 words]dhimmi no moreJun 6, 2019 09:14250279
11Leave NOW! [151 words]SheilaJun 6, 2019 10:06250279
15Sheila, sadly not ... [323 words]RobinJun 6, 2019 14:03250279
14RUN!! [188 words]MollyJun 7, 2019 08:51250279
8Do not marry him [12 words]truthfulJun 8, 2019 10:23250279
8He moved out... [670 words]DIDIJun 9, 2019 08:59250279
13advice [93 words]rachidiJun 9, 2019 09:05250279
1Woman beaten and scammed by Egyptians [1 words]LinaJun 10, 2019 11:12250279
10I know it's hard ... [263 words]RobinJun 10, 2019 13:59250279
8To Rachidi [185 words]RobinJun 10, 2019 14:15250279
12To DiDi [318 words]HopeJun 10, 2019 14:36250279
7no problem [53 words]rachidiJun 10, 2019 20:02250279
16OMW back to the US [255 words]DIDIJun 11, 2019 07:12250279
7Best wishes, Didi [133 words]RobinJun 11, 2019 16:54250279
15A reminder from nearly 8 years ago [211 words]anon1Jun 12, 2019 11:24250279
2To Rachidi [30 words]RobinJun 12, 2019 11:33250279
8hello [42 words]rachidiJun 12, 2019 18:41250279
5Didi [300 words]BeccaJun 12, 2019 20:04250279
4Don't worry about Didi [79 words]RobinJun 13, 2019 15:48250279
4Our dear Asiyah wrote "Islam is great"! Prove it our dear Asiyah! [46 words]dhimmi no moreJun 15, 2019 07:51250279
10Why Islam is NOT great [201 words]PrashantJun 15, 2019 22:46250279
13I would like to inform you Dhimmi no more [295 words]AsiyahJun 17, 2019 08:51250279
8Our dear Asiyah told us that Islam is great! So my question is why is Islam great? [89 words]dhimmi no moreJun 17, 2019 14:28250279
10Our dear Asiyah prove to us kuffar that Islam is great! You wrote it you cannot take it back! [68 words]dhimmi no moreJun 17, 2019 14:34250279
8Our dear Asiyah: How come you don't live in Afghanistan, Pakistan or KSA? [70 words]dhimmi no moreJun 17, 2019 14:41250279
5Robin: Scam from the Start? [28 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJun 18, 2019 00:25250279
4Americanmarried: Big Differences [51 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJun 18, 2019 00:30250279
5Response to Didi's story: Moroccan, Muslim, Pregnant, Morocco [198 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJun 18, 2019 01:03250279
7Our dear Asiyah and Sheikh googletranslate صلى الله عليه وسلم and more questions [110 words]dhimmi no moreJun 18, 2019 08:47250279
3Thanks, Luigi [117 words]RobinJun 18, 2019 16:41250279
8Our dear Asiyah: Where is your evidence that "Islam is great"? I'm waiting [229 words]dhimmi no moreJun 18, 2019 18:38250279
4STOP now enough is enough dhimmi no more [435 words]JessicaJun 19, 2019 04:03250279
7Our dear Asiyah says that he is not in this forum for "proselitism" what ever that is! [163 words]dhimmi no moreJun 19, 2019 10:37250279
5Our dear Jessica: Stay out of it! [125 words]dhimmi no moreJun 19, 2019 14:05250279
5Hi Robin [79 words]JeffJun 19, 2019 17:18250279
5Dear Robin [48 words]SiobhanJun 19, 2019 18:19250279
22Oh Jessica [371 words]SiobhanJun 19, 2019 19:29250279
9Our dear Jessica and our dear Asiyah: Go and tell the Yazidi women that "Islam is great"! They will think that you are funny! [259 words]dhimmi no moreJun 20, 2019 07:14250279
5Our dear Asiyah told us that Islam is great! And the disaster of "The Flat Earth" in The Qur'an! [882 words]dhimmi no moreJun 20, 2019 08:47250279
6I think you have me confused with another poster ... [121 words]RobinJun 20, 2019 13:09250279
7Baby won't soften him up [207 words]TrinaJun 20, 2019 15:48250279
5Get the hell out [161 words]JessicaJun 21, 2019 00:23250279
2Oh Siobhan [247 words]JessicaJun 21, 2019 00:40250279
2Oh my Siobhan [270 words]JessicaJun 21, 2019 01:04250279
4Oh you are clueless dhimmi no more [76 words]JessicaJun 21, 2019 01:17250279
3Siobhan [199 words]JessicaJun 21, 2019 01:45250279
3Our dear Asiyah: Where is your evidence that "Islam is great"? I'm still waiting! And more Quranic disasters! [113 words]dhimmi no moreJun 21, 2019 07:19250279
5Our dear Asiyah does not have evidence to support his claim that "Islam is great" And the Yazidi Genocide! [160 words]dhimmi no moreJun 21, 2019 12:12250279
2Never fine a older men married a young girl [25 words]jessicaJun 21, 2019 12:46250279
6Trina [122 words]SiobhanJun 21, 2019 14:12250279
4Wow an unhinged person posting the same thing all over [89 words]JessicaJun 22, 2019 01:14250279
4Our dear Jessica is back! I wonder why! [248 words]dhimmi no moreJun 22, 2019 05:57250279
5Our dear Asiyah's daily reminder: Why is Islam great? I'm still waiting [110 words]dhimmi no moreJun 22, 2019 06:14250279
2Our dear Asiyah is either unaware, which means he is ignorant, or he knows that the Qur'an says that Islam is the religion of the Hijazi Arabs only and he ain't an Arab [212 words]dhimmi no moreJun 22, 2019 09:31250279
4Our dear Jessica learned a new word "unhinged "! [43 words]dhimmi no moreJun 22, 2019 09:38250279
4Guiding the perplexed and clueless our dear Jessica صلى الله عليها وسلم The long version [474 words]dhimmi no moreJun 22, 2019 14:59250279
5SMH dhimmi no more you obviously needs help and psycho [114 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
JessicaJun 22, 2019 22:34250279
3Our dear Asiyah and my question for today! [40 words]dhimmi no moreJun 23, 2019 08:28250279
5Our dear Jessica and the prophet of Islam! Attention our dear Asiyah who ran away! [99 words]dhimmi no moreJun 23, 2019 09:10250279
3Convert? [24 words]ConfusedJun 23, 2019 20:13250279
6Dhimmi no more time for you to check yourself in the mental hospital [332 words]JessicaJun 23, 2019 20:32250279
3Where is dhimmi No more advice Siobhan [87 words]JessicaJun 23, 2019 21:34250279
6Your post are spot on Asiyash [152 words]JessicaJun 23, 2019 22:15250279
9Islam cannot be separated from Muslims and vice versa [236 words]PrashantJun 23, 2019 22:42250279
4oh our poor dhimmi no more is loosing it and needs help [12 words]jessica (canada)Jun 24, 2019 10:51250279
10Abusive men are alike in all cultures [162 words]MileJun 24, 2019 12:33250279
1But you can prove me wrong our dear Jessica who craves attention! [38 words]
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dhimmi no moreJun 24, 2019 13:56250279
2Our dear Jessica: Prove it! [19 words]dhimmi no moreJun 24, 2019 14:00250279
1Our dear Jessica needs to keep busy by adopting another cat! [50 words]dhimmi no moreJun 24, 2019 14:06250279
4So did you our dear and clueless Jessica find out who are the Yazidis and who is Nadia Murad Base? [49 words]dhimmi no moreJun 24, 2019 14:14250279
4Our dear Jessica is practicing psychology/psychiatry without license! You think we should report you to the Canadian Medical Society? [180 words]dhimmi no moreJun 24, 2019 14:30250279
11Abusive men are in all cultures but... [109 words]PrashantJun 24, 2019 22:35250279
4Hello Prashant [167 words]JessicaJun 24, 2019 22:54250279
3Convert [213 words]DIDIJun 25, 2019 07:34250279
8Good to hear from you! [263 words]RobinJun 25, 2019 16:12250279
1I'm happy for you DIDI [176 words]JessicaJun 25, 2019 18:48250279
14Correct [225 words]LinaJun 25, 2019 19:50250279
6You have to be right either in practice or in doctrine; you cannot be wrong on both [247 words]PrashantJun 26, 2019 00:12250279
7Abuse all over the World [387 words]DidiJun 26, 2019 05:32250279
5Happy [256 words]DidiJun 26, 2019 05:54250279
1Happy.. [190 words]DidiJun 26, 2019 06:09250279

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