Run. Alone or loneliness

Submitted by Chelsea, Apr 6, 2019 at 19:07

I prefer to be free. For all of you that think it is not possible to be alone and loving it...I am so happy for once in my life I can do what I want. It is wonderful. I am having a great time and hardly think of Mr once was.

Just sharing to encourage you. I am so happy now. It was a very hard road and a good lesson for me. It made me value my freedom and showed me who I was. I am not vulnerable prey and my pocketbook is for me.

These guys look for vulnerable women and keep their dopamine levels kicking with constant loveboming. It is business to them and they play the game well.

Being alone or being lonely is two different things. I value me now too much to waste my time and money on someone who was out to use me. I have a life. It is complete without the emotional manipulation for his gain. It is a non issue now. Thank God. So I am happy and busy doing things I like. What a burden I would have had if I had not woke up to this madness.

Loneliness is not good. But alone is. Perhaps you may could take a time out and clear your mind so that you can make a good decision. what you want matters too I would hate to see you lose yourself.

They see you as property. A thing to be used. Don't let him take your precious energy,time, money and heart. There are many ways to fill loneliness. There is a whole big world waiting for you. Please don't lose who are. be blessed and take care of yourself. Chelsea

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