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For sheilaReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Melanie (United Kingdom), Nov 19, 2018 at 06:47 Dear sheila thankyou so much for youre response im so alone in this..im so confused..hes been back in touch and of course the tears stopped rolling and i was so releived..his story is that his phone is broke and he has to use his brothers when he can..i beleived this to be true a while back ..hes now in marrakech as his brother is having problems..also this was his reason for the lack of communication and looking after his younger brother and i helped him gave advice and comfort when he was upset..so yes i took it all in!! Beleived it..then he went awol again at weekend..i was back to square one but worse..i felt physical pain..im not eating or sleeping as it is since i met him..i feel very weak and ill..im a shadow of my former self i look a mess..im quite an attractive young looking woman for my age..but its gone.its really taken its toll on me also because of the wanting to be physically with him..which i will go into later to help with my sad story..i was heartbroke again..pining for him..non stop crying losing my mind..glued to my phone checking messenger checking his f.b..then i saw he was online..active status..but my messages were only sent..my heart sank i felt sick..still my messages not read and then he came offline..i feared the worst then i got angry and sent him messages calling him a scammer etc..telling him i would expose him..then i rememberd something he said that i didnt twig on at the time..he asked did i use watsapp which i no longer do and i asked him why..he said.."just wondered".so yesterday i installed watsapp..and low and behold last night he messaged me on there!! So hes been using that!.said he will talk to me on messenger!..oh yes sheila youre thinking the same as me...other women!!..i was really off with him but then again of course i was over the moon..he was full of apologies..ya da ya da ya da..i was once again under his spell..what is it about them!..im consumed by him..obsessed and posessed..ive lost all control..i started using my head a bit though and asking him questions he just kept avoiding..he was saying how could i doubt him and hes not what i think he is..hes not like them and he hates country for it etc..then he threw in that he had got a job!...i asked him 3 times last night what it was and to no avail!..odd huh?!..he starts today..now this is where im soooo confused and torn that he could be real because he said that as to pay me back he will pay for my plane ticket asap and no need for extra money..he and his brother who knows how much he loves me and is happy for him will take care of the accomodation!..weve discussed this before..he said he just wants me there this year..so a lot of what he says makes me beleive..oh how i love him hes my soulmate i feel his words and he is a mirror of myself..i adore him..i would never get over him..the love we have for one another if hes real is like in the movies and more..sounds dramatic i know..im trying to get the money for a plane ticket..im out of work..and all youre information sheila thankyou has got me thinking to when we first started talking only as friends..we didnt get along at first..then boom hit me like a train i was overwhelmed and didnt expect like he said the same..he calls me his wife and he said he has asked for his dads permition they are in there 60s and devout muslims and he gave us his blessing!??!!. The plan to get married there and now he keeps asking about coming here because at the beginning i said im desperate to leave england..fresh start after something bad happened to me..he said it was my choice then where we live as i am the woman and hes the provider etc..but he hints about england..and yes you are right i now think im 47 and cant give him children yet hes always talking about it us having a family..and please forgive me and anyone that reads this as im ashamed hes only 25 and soo good looking..like a model..ive asked him why me?..he doesnt like the women there..he fell for my mind and personality..and that im the only one whos gets him!..as he does me..you see without sounding vain which im not one bit..we are both very intelligent and attractive..so could he be real?..i just dont know what to think..i just want to be with him forever..its so very very sad and i cry as i write this.. Thanks again sheila for youre help! Melanie xxx Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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