For you hope

Submitted by Lorna (Iraq), Nov 10, 2018 at 01:59

Hello Hope,

Thank you for your kind reply ! What you have said is my plan too !

I will do nothing unless he proves his love for me ! I can't see it is real on his side other than he is desperate to live in UK in a life such as mine !
Because of this forum I went in with my eyes wide open and yes I'm hurt but knew I would be , yet for me clarification was what I needed as I kept thinking ..but what if it is real love ?

Obviously being ill has made a difference into how I see my life and although I've had chances to go out with men recently I've been single for eight years ! I'm not ugly in fact here the men can't stop looking at me and he said your too beautiful to be here with me ! So I was never desperate to be loved but like me he is a university graduate and our minds clicked together and I fell in love with him !

I know we can find a way somehow to communicate when I'm home at the end of next week !! Unless he proves his love in some way ..like telling his friends and family we are real then I will not take him into the UK..take care thanks for listening

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