Very difficult to know.

Submitted by Bazoonga (Portugal), Nov 9, 2018 at 06:47

Dear Melanie,

I find it very difficult to believe that you met him on FB and fell in love.Always find a person with impeccable credibility through friends or relatives.

We can't say what he could be doing but there is a chance he has got another woman /women and he is now determining who is a better one.Never send them money and never convert to their religion.For all you know,he will marry you in his country at a mosque and there will be no records of marriage and so it's not considered legal.

I regret to say this but why have you fallen for one who has no money and you have to help him out AND instead of him getting converyed to Christianity,you are converting to his?You are doing everything he wants.What is the desperation?

Rush to Rosemary Sookhdeo's "Stepping Into The Shadows." A book written by her and I believe she is still there in East End Of London.

I hope you get over him and your helpless feeling and he doesn't get in touch with you again.What if he destroys your passport once you marry him?You can't do anything once you are in his country.

Do you want to undergo that horrible experience ?Instead,be strong,get over this pining,get in touch with your friends and find out someone from your community.

Good luck.

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