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Brainwashed....NO MORE!!!!

Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
in response to reader comment: Are you kidding me ?

Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), Oct 9, 2018 at 20:07

Lorna,
You should be scared to let him into your life,but not of losing him.
Seriously!
He is blocking you to punish??? Who does he thinks he is? Tell him to get lost!!!
He is nothing more than emotionally immature,rotten scoundrell,who uses women to his advantage!
Please,lose this crap!!
Did it ever come to your mind that he may as well ,using other girls,just like you and possibly,having a harem of his endless admirers?
Considering the possibility of meeting his other concubines at the same time you arrive?
Being one out of many of his lovers???Muslim men can have up to 4 wives.Do you need this?

Here is my story,I keep repeating in my posts:

I could not figure this out myself either,for quite a while....
Red a lot of articles on Narcissism,and was trying to figure out of how come that behaving so bad -makes us ,ladies,to stick with them and ignore all those red flags of their disrespect to our feelings and needs...and then it hit me :

As soon as they figure out our weaknesses,they try to feed us with their sweet talk and tell us what we want to hear.

But then-their actions do not match their words -and this makes our heads to spin around, validating our own sanity: "If it feels so good to be around him,then why it feels so bad ,when he is not treating us with respect and his actions do not follow his words ?"

Then-"if it feels so bad to be affected by his bad behavior, rude comments ,and disrespect- why are we still together? Why it is so hard to get out of this dead end relationship?
"Doesn't make any sense!!!
And this whirlwind goes on and on in your head ,making you feel miserable and more involved,thinking of him and trying to figure him out.(Congratulations-you are now brainwashed!)

That is when the manipulation starts!

As soon as they put those "hooks " in your mind,they are sure that they have you attached emotionally and entitled to do with you whatever they please,using the silent treatment in alternation with sweet talk and affection-just to get what they want from you THEIR WAY,not yours,completely ignoring what you feel like or what your needs are.And this dissonance with his actions vs his behavior makes you feel miserable, but somehow addicted to him.

Once it was very snowy day ,it was beautiful!!!We had a heavy snowfall but very slow one.The snow was pouring in large chunks and setting on a tree branches,it was sunny and looked like everything was glowing,it was dreamy and amazing outside....and he asked me with his sweet talk to come and see him ,using all those romantic words,saying how beautiful the snow is and how nice it would be to have someone as beautiful and as soft ,to have near now ,and how much he misses me...etc.

The roads were bad and I had my car spinning on my way to him...but I was able to make it safe home ,praying for my safety all the way...we saw each other...had a good time...it felt like Paradise,but.....when I left his place,he never bothered to check ,if I made it home safely ,or if I am ok.

He SIMPLY DID NOT CARE AT ALL!!!

Caring for someone besides himself was not in his plans.It did not click in his selfish brain ,that at least,he should pretend to be polite and call or text me -to see if I made it safe home.Not even that....

That showed me a lot about him and his true intentions.

Guess what?

He was dare enough to call me a few days later saying how bad he missed me(more likely because it did not work out with one of his other multiple girls,he has in his pocket ,and rotates time to time to see who is available )and how nice it would be to have us -him and me,together again.

But I made up my mind and said to myself:"you lost me in a snowstorm"...Blocked him everywhere I could,chopped off my waist long black hair,he used to like, and brush with his fingers,changed the color of it ,and trashed all the clothes,I used to wear while with him,got myself a new car, wiping him completely off my life like he never existed!!!!

I made a step out of his place and into a beautiful January sunny day!!!
I did not say a word to him,but never ever looked back at all!!! Blocked him everywhere from my life!!!!Banned him forever as an evil creep!!!!

He stopped existing to me at that day,and for good!!! I had to draw the line and that was it!!!

I lived somehow without him,before we met and I will live just fine after-without him!!!!

I changed a lot!

He may not recognize me if we accidentally bump into each other on the street!!!
I was mad at myself,that despite all the red flags,I was still trying to find an explanation for his behavior...

How stupid and naive it was for me to believe that I am the "only one " he had!

How naive are those other girls ,believing that they are "the one " for him!!!!

Do not they smell my perfume in his bed or don't they see my hair on his pillows,or my hair pins in his place?

Do not they feel that he has "another woman",don't they guess it by the way he behaves around them?

Looking at his phone all the time, every 15 minutes,as if he expects call or a text,he does not wants you to know about ,covering it from you so that you can not see the details?

Or asking you for how long are you staying ,as if he was afraid that the other lady may walk in when you are still there???? Disgusting !!!!

It is important to stand up for our values,no matter what, and do not accept disrespectful behavior by any means.

"Modest man",indeed!!!(That is how he is known among his friends and relatives.) He needs a crowd to boost his ego ,or to bring you down, so that he can feel better about himself.

Because in reality he is a LOSER-the fact that he hides even from himself.

Those boys need to learn that there are plenty of the other good,decent and caring men out there, and they -are not the last men in the world to cling to.

The reason they do it-is to remind you about him as soon as you started to mend yourself, and to see if you still into him.

Like nothing happened.It is another way to manipulate you and your emotions.Because he does not care if you hurt or not,as to him you are only an object with no feelings and if you have something that he may benefit from,he will try to take advantage of you again one way or another.

No he did not change!Trust me!

PLEASE STAY NO CONTACT,EVEN IF IT HURTS AS HELL ,AND FEELS LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO FALL APART-YOU WILL NOT!!!!

He wants to have you back just to use you again ,and then -dump you,to show that he is in charge of when to break up this so-called "relationship" and it is his decision,not yours!

SO BETTER BE THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY,than one who got dumped.

I wrote it in my posts earlier, that mine did contacted me again,he even dared to mention God, and wanted to hoover me back,saying of how much he missed me and that he went to his country and brought me a present,and so on....I did not bother to respond,so that the next day he wrote:"Dismissed".(Like I ever care at all))))

For him-option "second chance"-was successfully disabled!)))

He was dismissed a while ago,like he never,ever existed.

Too bad we can not write in front of our hearts"please wipe your feet" before you enter it,like some rugs say at the house entrance. So we should not let someone lousy to crawl back into our life again.

And that showed me how "much he missed me and loved me".He did not realized that I dismissed him a while ago and is laughing at his so predictable and immature manipulative behavior.

Love is a verb,it is a will to give and not to take from the loved one.

If you do not see it in his actions and not words then he is an illusion in your head of how things could be but never was,and-trust me-never will be. So-let go of this illusion and move on.

Let that clown out of your life,let him perform for somebody else.

Stay strong and if you are writing the story of your life,do not ever let anybody else to hold your pen,or dictate of how it should be!!!

Make yourself your priority,splurge some mone on new wardrobe,go to spa or travel to a new place,read some good books,learn new skill(painting for instance),respect yourself and guard yourself from those losers,and never settle for less,stand up for your values no matter who it is.

We do not need anyone's approval to be ourselves.We are perfect the way we are ,"God makes no mistakes ".)

Hope that helps!!!

Stay strong and stand your grounds!!!


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15Break the chain Sadie [165 words]CANDY APPLEOct 4, 2018 16:43245170
5Algerian Man - Wonder if it is mine that I never met in August 2018 [75 words]JackieOct 4, 2018 18:19245170
9KIck him into the dustbin. [169 words]BazoongaOct 5, 2018 05:10245170
6Four official wives and innumerable concubines. [107 words]BazoongaOct 5, 2018 05:18245170
8You should probably talk with Candy Apple [72 words]SheilaOct 5, 2018 15:01245170
8OPRN FOR BUSINESS. [188 words]CANDY APPLEOct 6, 2018 13:20245170
13Mind Games [214 words]SadieOct 6, 2018 17:35245170
6Very pleasantly surprised. [506 words]BazoongaOct 6, 2018 20:07245170
8They're dysfunctional [337 words]LinaOct 7, 2018 08:57245170
3LISTEN to Candy Apple I did the same Sadie [299 words]JessicaOct 7, 2018 21:14245170
7I'm running late for a Monday Sadie but.. [179 words]SheilaOct 8, 2018 07:46245170
5My ex would do the same candy Apple [278 words]JessicaOct 8, 2018 22:59245170
14Algeria 90 day fiance show [117 words]CANDY APPLESep 26, 2018 16:01245073
4Hi Candy Apple [33 words]SheilaSep 27, 2018 15:43245073
10Hey Sheila [154 words]CANDY APPLESep 30, 2018 12:00245073
190 Day Fiancee Algeria Show [251 words]JackieOct 5, 2018 20:34245073
4HEY JACKIE [140 words]CANDY APPLEOct 8, 2018 20:36245073
5Afraid for my granddaughter [128 words]MarilynSep 21, 2018 18:31244981
10Your concern is very VALID...she is in danger [180 words]ChelseaSep 24, 2018 14:20244981
11Very disturbing trend. [334 words]BazoongaSep 24, 2018 20:34244981
4Book to be given to her. [36 words]BazoongaSep 24, 2018 20:40244981
11Marilyn's granddaughter [34 words]Sabrina (Australia)Sep 25, 2018 00:41244981
91000% agree!!!! [144 words]LANA (USA)Sep 25, 2018 18:08244981
2Hello Marilyn [52 words]SheilaSep 25, 2018 18:17244981
7Agree with Chelsea [55 words]Candy AppleSep 26, 2018 16:08244981
8Dear Marilyn [269 words]Anon1Sep 27, 2018 08:43244981
18They are all scammers! Beware of jaafr sadeq [202 words]AnnaSep 19, 2018 09:08244927
14gotta be tough with these cowards [136 words]ChelseaSep 19, 2018 18:46244927
5Warning to all. [104 words]BazoongaSep 20, 2018 00:59244927
6Hi Anna [44 words]SheilaSep 20, 2018 18:03244927
9Beware of jaafr sadeq [160 words]AnnaSep 21, 2018 19:35244927
5Beware of jaafr sadeq [22 words]AnnaSep 21, 2018 19:54244927
4Thank you Sheila [22 words]AnnaSep 21, 2018 19:55244927
3Anna [47 words]JessicaSep 21, 2018 21:56244927
8Thank you Chelsea and all [60 words]AnnaSep 23, 2018 08:34244927
5Wrong anna [52 words]AnnaSep 24, 2018 13:47244927
7Your welcome Anna [97 words]SheilaSep 24, 2018 15:11244927
5You are so welcome and thank you for sharing [42 words]ChelseaSep 24, 2018 17:55244927
5No not his friend Anna [97 words]Jessica (canada)Sep 27, 2018 20:05244927
4Hi Jessica [49 words]AnnaSep 30, 2018 12:01244927
10Jaafr sedeq [62 words]CANDY APPLESep 30, 2018 12:06244927
1Hello Candy Apple [241 words]jessica (canada)Oct 6, 2018 14:40244927
2Be weary [21 words]SheilaOct 9, 2018 10:43244927
4I think the same too [61 words]Jessica (canada)Oct 10, 2018 00:35244927
1That's what people do Jessica [54 words]SheilaOct 10, 2018 17:23244927
3Hi Sheila [133 words]JessicaOct 12, 2018 02:27244927
3Fake profile [48 words]jessica (canada)Oct 12, 2018 17:24244927
6I hope you are well Lorna [31 words]SheilaSep 19, 2018 08:19244926
5Mine too Sheila...concerned for Lorna [27 words]ChelseaSep 19, 2018 18:52244926
2I'm really getting concerned [20 words]SheilaSep 20, 2018 18:00244926
2yeah Sheila...I know. Me too. [19 words]ChelseaSep 21, 2018 18:14244926
4No reply yet or I missed it? [94 words]BazoongaSep 22, 2018 20:32244926
4Reply to Bazoonga [68 words]SheilaSep 24, 2018 15:05244926
9Reply to Chelsea [257 words]SheilaSep 24, 2018 15:25244926
7Sheila,you cracked me up [211 words]Lana(USA)Sep 24, 2018 16:23244926
5Good one Sheila....thanks for sharing [60 words]ChelseaSep 24, 2018 17:51244926
4Very glad to hear that. [187 words]BazoongaSep 24, 2018 20:16244926
6Reply to Lana [136 words]SheilaSep 25, 2018 17:41244926
8Reply to Chelsea [328 words]SheilaSep 25, 2018 17:57244926
5Reply to Bazoonga [362 words]SheikaSep 25, 2018 18:14244926
1Thanks,Sheika for reaching out. [38 words]BazoongaSep 26, 2018 17:47244926
5Thanks Sheila - so glad you are back too and blessings [215 words]ChelseaSep 26, 2018 21:19244926
5THIS FAMOUS STORY WAS TAKING PLACE IN KINGSTON ONTARIO [554 words]Jessica (canada)Sep 26, 2018 22:31244926
5Reply to Jessica [70 words]SheilaSep 27, 2018 15:32244926
2So right Chelsea [118 words]SheilaSep 27, 2018 15:41244926
7I Hope you are well lorna [303 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 01:41244926
7So glad to hear from you Lorna! [278 words]SheilaOct 1, 2018 15:29244926
2I hope you are well lorna [50 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 18:16244926
3I'm Lorna [50 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 18:17244926
4Thanks Sheila so glad you made the comments you did [123 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 19:40244926

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