I can't believe what I'm reading!!

Submitted by Sheila, Oct 8, 2018 at 07:34

Lorna, you haven't given yourself time to get over this man. Why does not anyone know about him? This is serious! You are going to a foreign country completely different from anything you have ever experienced and you are marrying a man you have never met. You haven't told anyone who is close with you about this???This also tells me you know this wrong or you would tell the ones close to you. You are playing with your life and fire!!! If you live through this, you will regret it! You can't be helped when you won't help yourself. Lorna, I have been very concerned about you but right now the feeling I have is anger. I don't understand women who puts their life on the line for these men who don't give a damn about them and these men just want to use them for everything they can!! Don't you love yourself?? You should love yourself more so much more than this. Times like these you realize you can't help everyone.

Some of the people on this forum have really been through hell and are lucky they made it back home! I consider myself blessed.. If I had known what you have been told before going to see the scum bucket you can believe none of it would have happen. I'm real disappointed in you Lorna. You kept talking to him and you allowed him to lower you back into his wed of deceit. I've been kind to you and genuinely care but I'm sure I don't sound so kind now and that's because I try to be as honest with people as I can be. I'm letting you know exactly what think about what you're doing. When I ever curse that means I'm more than upset. No matter what is said to you on this forum you are blind to it and you have 20/20 vision with anything this man says to you. People who are despicable like him will pay for all the bad they do to others. How many men you do you know of in your culture who marry women older than them??? Let me tell you Muslim men don't do this. They are taught to marry women much younger than them to have many children. When you're in your late 20's you are considered old with them. Of course he will say none of this is true and it doesn't bother him because his plan is to use you until there is nothing else to use you for. He doesn't love you and he doesn't care what care happens to you. I'm putting it out there in harshness because kind words are not getting through!!

I will pray for you and I hope you don't ever succeed in suicide. I've been through suicide with my brother and let me tell you we tried every way to help him with his feitesdion over his divorce but he didn't want our help but we tried our hardest. We didn't know what he was going to do and it hurt like hell more than you can imagine. Suicide doesn't only end a life but it can severely hurt and destroy others who care for you. I'm now at a loss for anymore words because I see I can't help you and yes this troubles me really bad!! I have to get dressed for work. Maybe some of the others can talk some sense into you. I just don't even know what to say at this point other than someone who cares will be honest and that's what I've done no matter how awful I may sound in my expressing my thoughts right now.

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