Single lady going to Algeria to meet Muslin Man

Submitted by Jackie, Oct 4, 2018 at 13:26

Good afternoon Bea,

Oh my! 50% of me wants to believe me was being "real" with me and the other 50% makes me feel like a fool. I see many of these woman are smart and independent like myself, currently getting my Master's Degree. I honestly feel so hard and so quickly for someone I have never met and that in itself is a red flag. I am not desperate and could find someone here in the USA if I really wanted. There is just something about the mystery that excites me or the fantasy of leaving all my responsibilities and reality of being someone other than where I am. I left him not a mystery to no one. Even an ex asked what do you see in him that you did not see in me? I said I really cannot explain the deep soul connection I have with him, but I cannot imagine my life without him. YIKES! What have I done?

I have pushed away several family members, friends and men who were just looking out for my best interest. I did not go, but have a VISA until 2020 and I look at it daily thinking just do it and go! I really really really want to meet him. I fear his mother is behind all of this and it scares me to death! He still tries to text me because he left his family and went to a friend's 4 hours North and is trying to find a job to come to the USA since I do not believe him or his family are real. I fear he is so determined that he will come to the USA. If the Democrats get out of Congress, the Muslims will be allowed a VISA into our country as they were with President Obama and he may be after revenge since the promises I made did not keep.

How can I know if anything is real or fake? He just wants to come to the USA and have freedom, I can see the desperation in his eyes. All I ever wanted to do was help him, but he cannot even take care of himself. I told him if you are true and real, prove it to me. Get a job, support yourself, apply for a VISA. If all you want is to come here then make your wish come true. He responds by saying it would be easier if you can here and we marry for me to come to the USA and I can be with you forever. I said well I think this is a game to you and your family and I will not be made a fool, so prove to me otherwise. I guess the challenge is on. If he wants here bad enough, I am sure he will find someone else on his list to stalk. He is only still bothering me because I have a VISA until 2020. So frustrated and upset with myself because I deserve respect as a human being and that is all I ever gave to him. No demands and no expectations and no judgements. Fantasy is now Reality :o(

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