Welcome to the forum Sadie!

Submitted by Sheila, Oct 3, 2018 at 23:34

Hi Sadie, Siobhan told you the 100% truth. Please drop him like a hot brick. You are going to be hurt but you will heal. I promise!! If you allow him to continue this charade , you will get hurt more than you ever imagined. Do not and I repeat do not go visit or move to Egypt!!!! If he can take your visa and keep you there without any way of possibly leaving he can very well do it!! The American Embassy will not help you if you cannot prove who you are.

Mena Men do not know the meaning of "LOVE". They are controlling, demanding, overly jealous, liars, manipulative, use, put guilt trips on you, mentally and physically abusive. The reason they are jealous is not because of love but because they don't want to lose their pawn into a first world country. They will tell you they don't want to live in your country and do not desire a visa to just throw you off. They don't want you to get suspicious or catch on to what they're true intentions are. Google "BEZNESS" you'll get the story on these RATS!! It's all true. There are probably some good ones but you can rest assure it's not the ones on the hunt and sweet talking foreigners.

All of us on here have been through it, still going through it, in the process of healing , or have healed and moved on. I moved on. It took me about a year and half to two years but now I'm the happiest I've ever been. I felt like death beforehand because of my EX MENA RAT! Continue to come here and read as many stories as you can!! We're here to help you also. Drop him, run fast, and never look back. He will do everything in his power to convince you he is your soulmate. Don't listen to him!!! I'm wishing you all the best and all the strength to walk away from this rat man for good. I hope to see you back on here soon Sadie! :-) Take Care!!

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