Sadie

Submitted by Siobhan (United States), Oct 3, 2018 at 17:03

Firstly, a warm welcome to DP. Mr Pipes has this save haven for people like us and I am thankful because it helped me a whole lot.

Secondly, RUN.
I mean run away from that situation as far as you can. Cut off all communication with that rat. You were being groomed to be used for a visa and possibly money, later on.
Part of the trick is to control your movements and dress, so when the timing is right, he will pounce like the rat bastard he is. All that was supposed to make you feel that he cares so much for you. ALL LIES.

Those sweet words of nothing, were exactly that "sweet words of nothing". He pulls you in, then pushes you away and he will keep that up until you break and give in to his demands. They all do it. Someone once said that go to the same school for grooming Western women.

Should you be foolish enough to continue with this "fake romance", he will convince you to bring him to America. He will stick around until he gets his permanent papers, then he will leave you and marry one of his own. I guarantee this and will wager a bet too.

Please cut him off before he hurts you more. It will empower you if you make the first move...believe me.

Thirdly, you ARE a gift to men, real men. You are a million times better than the rat because you have the ability to love and be honest.

Drop him please Sadie. Show him that the grooming did not work.

Come hang with us here. Help us to fight the war against rats using Western women for visas and money.

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