Nothing sad

Submitted by Bazoonga (United Kingdom), Sep 6, 2018 at 05:17

Dear judz,

There is nothing sad about this.If he doesn't return only to abuse and cheat you or,worse,with another woman/wife,you have nothing to fear.There will be a temporary sense of having been taken for a ride.Perfectly understandable but you will get over it.Everyone does.

Never start a relationship on a social site.One doesn't know a person and falls in love.Be careful even if he returns.Don't get carried away thinking that he has for you.You don't know how many places he has visited,how many women he has had sex with and how he views them.

He might even check into a hotel with you and invite another man for abusing you.This has actually happened .

Get a husband through your acquaintances or relatives -this is the safest way since the antecedents are known.

Be safe and happy.When the right man has to come to you,he will but NEVER through these websites.

Best luck and do let us know.No we won't gatecrash but deluge you with affection and best wishes.

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