Hello Judz

Submitted by Sheila, Sep 5, 2018 at 20:10

I'm sorry to read about your situation. If you feel like you do maybe it's time to let it go. I see you live in the USA. Majority of Arab men think western women are easy. This could be some of the problem with him. Even the ones who live in western countries think this way. They think western women sleep around with a lot of men, go out and party, smoke and get drunk.

There's an Arab man who lives in my city and he has been sending me friend requests and messages in Facebook. After the first ones I just didn't say anything to him and then I noticed how many mutual friends we had because I was thinking we had to have mutual friends because my settings only allows friends of friends to send me a friend request. He and I have 357 mutual friends . All women. He's the biggest player obviously. His posts are public. He has so many likes on his pics and comments from women and he calls them all babe and sweetheart. I blocked him so he couldn't contact me anymore. I was just being noisy on his profile lol.

There's so many of them who are players. Have multiple social media accounts and will be on multiple dating sites too. I know you carebfor this man but there's a chance he was being a player. I'm sorry to say that but I try to be honest with people. I don't know this for sure about the man you were seeing but I'm saying there's that chance. If he's acting funny toward you now. Then, try to move forward. Try your hardest or he will continue acting this way and it will only get worse.

I hope this was some help in shedding some light on this situation for you. Also welcome to the forum. Let us know how things are going and remember above all, love and take of yourself first :-)

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