Time spent

Submitted by Freebird (United Kingdom), Sep 5, 2018 at 18:44

Hi sheila interesting question you ask here. I think the love bombing when your very vulnerable pulls the heart strings firstly, no matter if your not looking for love or attention it may happen and it may happen for some fairly fast when they need to feel loved. Before you know it, you do feel your in love. Maybe not the kind of love though when people have been together a long time or adoration, rather a feeling that your capable of being loved. In my case I've not spent awfully long with my partner side by side but talked every day for years. I think it a difficult question to fully answer for some, but i will say in my case after all the time I put into this and gave my all, and i truly loved and still love him, whether he can say his level of love for me is same I honestly am not really certain of that now though. Interesting to hear others point of view on this

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