Listen up

Submitted by Lynny (United Kingdom), Aug 31, 2018 at 18:06

Ladies or guys I have been a regular on this forum for a number of years now but have mainly read stories not really commented much until recently. I don't want to really get into depth about my situation now as things are a bit iffy if that makes sense, but I have noticed for a long time it's the same pattern with many. I get really so angry about how people can use, manipulate, deceive, and hurt others to get what they want from life without a concience by hurting others so much. Life is a rollercoaster and we learn from our mistakes but unfortunately for some too much damage has already been made and those people may never get over what has happened to them. Trust really is valuable in a relationship and must be earned, but those guys who prey on lonely vulnerable women who may have already been hurt ? Honestly they really DONT CARE.

I am also a member of an expat forum and I am constantly preyed upon by guys asking me if I'm married or what I do, as their trying to figure out if I'm.a good candidate for them ! And that's in the first message to me ! It's very easy to really let your guard down to these guys if you are ignorant to it all, as what woman does not wanna hear sweet words from a handsome man after being hurt before ? And who does not look for love and companionship ? But believe me and I know this to be true , they can and WILL take years if necessary. I wish so much we could do something to put a stop to all this, as the more stories I read the more angry I become towards those rats ! Their own country makes it hard for them so they use us to make their life easier but they don't love us truly....be very aware and stay strong

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