Sheila can you help me

Submitted by Lorna, Aug 31, 2018 at 05:27

Met a Kurdish man on instagram 9 months ago ..he liked my pictures I liked his then we started chatting online then after a few months he asked for my number and I refused at first then because I like him I gave it .we whatsapped then phone calls ! He told me after a 4 months he loved me and I loved him too but he never asked for money or anything then 3 weeks ago he asked me to come and marry him and then he will come to me in UK! He never said it before and I was shocked I said no I couldn't come right now ! Then he blocked me after a day he unblocked and said if I don't come he is coming out the illegal way ! It's an ultimatum I know ..now he has paid 500 dollars and will pay thousands from his uncle to this gang by tomorrow unless I come! He said if he comes that way then I didn't love him so I will never hear from him again! I'm heartbroken I'm clever good job no kids ten years older than him and I don't know what to do ..please help me I can't sleep or eat I.. is he a passport love only or does he really care !

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