This is what they do

Submitted by Deirdre, Aug 16, 2018 at 19:26

Hi Jackie,

I am very sorry about what happened with your insurance license, hopefully there will be another opportunity to do it again. I know that you won't be getting back all your money but some is better than none.It is unfortunate how these men affect and ruin our lives. As for facebook...one thing they get off on is parading around with what they take from us. He knows very well that you would see him showing off with the money he stole from you and he gets off on it in a way of punishing you for not going to Algeria. They all compare notes about it while out to coffee on who got the most from their bezness it's actually pathetic. Oh yes one of a well known red flag would be if he tells you that he is going for coffee, especially all the time. It's a meeting place for him and his friends to discuss their plans, compare notes and laugh about what they've done.

I never ended up giving mine my facebook, (i use an alias name on there anyways) there were too many red flags so I tried to feel him out for a while to see if he fitted the bezness description and he did. I was already into 4 months with him when I decided to block him from whatsapp and another mutual social website we were on. It wasn't long before he found me on a different website and tried to win me back. He went on about how he'd been trying to find me everywhere on social media and bla bla bla (more like stalking) but I hide very well or so I thought. I called him out on his intentions but of course pure denial. He was unable to convince me of anything. My time was only a short time with him and I got out of it early so I was lucky but it was still enough time to do emotional damage.

Jackie just remember that karma does exist, I have seen it first hand. I know that things aren't good for you at the moment but they will get better. If anything use your anger to move forward. I think that's a smart move reporting him to the authorities to stop him in his tracks and you will see who gets the last laugh. I am glad that you found this forum, we are here for you

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